Why is it that so many of us only say what we are thankful for on Thanksgiving? Truly, what is the difference between Thursday, November 23, 2017 and Wednesday, November 15, 2017?
Nothing. There is no difference at all. Well, other than one comes with a feast and the other does not.
Gratitude is the feeling of being thankful. And it is a feeling you should be actively seeking every moment of every day.
When you are stuck in traffic and will be late — be thankful that you have a car to sit in amongst that traffic.
When you fall face first in front of a potential employer — be thankful that you have legs you can walk and trip with. And, be thankful that you are able to show how genuinely human you are.
When your kids act out every time you need them to be on their best behavior — be thankful that you have been blessed with kids who aren’t afraid to share their voice. And be thankful that they have lungs to breathe with and life to share with you.
When you are in charge of cooking Thanksgiving dinner for a large number of guests and your power goes out — be thankful that you have just created the future most-talked-about Thanksgiving memory ever.
Get the idea? Having an attitude of gratitude can help you find the faintest of rainbows in the darkest of clouds — and to focus on the good and let the bad fall away.
Not only is gratitude helpful for your mental well-being, it can also be physically rewarding. In fact, by maintaining a positive attitude and looking on the bright side, did you know that you can reduce the stress in your life? And we all know that stress can cause so many ailments, such as headaches, sleeplessness, digestive issues, increased blood pressures, etc.
Now that you know just how important gratitude is, here is how you can implement a plan to make it a part of your day — and change your life!
1. Find yourself a notebook, a note pad, a journal, an old composition book. Anything that you can write on regularly and keep it set aside for this specific purpose.
2. Write at least one thing every day that you are thankful for. This can be one word, one sentence, or a whole darn story.
3. Dedicate a specific time for reflection and writing. It could be when you wake up, before you go to bed, or on your lunch break. Whatever time works for you and allows you to be consistent.
Try this — even if only for a week or two. I promise you that focusing on just one thing that makes you thankful will slowly turn into more thanks and, eventually, a whole new habit. Out with the old way of thinking and in with the new; out with dark, in with the light.
Don’t just focus on gratitude for Thanksgiving. Make everyday a day of thanks. Starting today.
“We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorns have roses.”
– Alphonse Karr